When a Facebook Comment makes you rant….

I am capable of making humans. I was born with this ability. I did not ask for it. I did not ask for reproductive organs that allow me to carry and grow a human. Nevertheless, I am able to do this. I am a woman. Have you figured out how to make humans without me yet? Are there little tiny humans cooking in some lab somewhere? If you have – that’s fantastic, because being pregnant fucking sucks and I would have gladly turned that responsibility over to someone else…or over to a lab tech. Whoever. Yeah, I could adopt – or hire a surrogate. I don’t HAVE to be pregnant. Do you know how expensive that is though? Having a baby, no matter how you do it, is expensive – BUT doing it myself is definitely less than the other options. And also, you’re still using a woman to make that baby. I know. I know. I need a man too. Not for the whole process though. We could freeze all the men’s sperm and kill them all and STILL be able to make babies. Just saying. I do not literally have intentions of doing that – just fyi. Buut yeah – can you make a baby for me at the same cost it is for me to do it myself? Oh. You haven’t figured that out yet?? What. A. Shame.

I know that I don’t speak for all women. I know that plenty of women have differing views than mine. That is totally fine. It is ok if you want to give up your rights to equal health care. It is your prerogative to take a back seat while we are being taken advantage of – laughed at for asserting ourselves – scoffed at for demanding what we deserve. It’s 2017 and our great grandmothers already fought this fight. It’s 2017 and didn’t we JUST enact the ACA? But here we are again. Here are the naysayers again. The ones that say, “You already got what you want.” while they attempt to take it away from us. For what? For religious liberty? You don’t have a vagina so it’s not your problem?? Well. Fuck off. You say. Abstain from sex if you don’t want to create an unwanted pregnancy. You say your moral code does not permit promiscuity so disease should not be a problem. You say “It’s all in gods hands – he has a plan and a purpose for everything” so I should just pray to/trust in him concerning things like uncontrollable pain, cancer, unending bleeding, recurrent ovarian cysts, hormone induced migraines…and so on?

Doesn’t your god work through his or her people? I’m not familiar with all religions and the way their god’s orchestrate their will. I am familiar with a few and in my experience the gods need us mere humans to do their bidding. So, as a religious individual isn’t it your responsibility to take care of the people? To take care of the people who are responsible for growing the future generation?

And it’s not your problem? Did I ask you to pay for my healthcare? Are you going to pay for my healthcare? Is someone going to make you pay for MY healthcare? Nope. The answer is no. Get off your high horse and come back to reality. If anything, we are imploring each other to pay for our own healthcare. Afraid of paying more taxes? Wouldn’t it be better to pay a little more in taxes than what you are paying out of pocket for healthcare? By the way, there are countries out there with functioning universal healthcare systems run through their governments.

Also, don’t misunderstand me. I’m not asking for a place of honor as a woman. I’m just asking for respect. I’m just asking for necessary care. I’m asking for you to stop being a prick. I’m asking for you to be considerate. I’m asking that you inform yourself. I’m asking that you don’t just take someone else’s word and run with it. I’m asking that you take the time to form your own educated opinions and learn how distinguish fact from fiction.

  1. Birth Control is not free to everyone at a state funded health department location. In most cases, you have to meet income guidelines. So, if I make a lot of money to support myself and my family, but my insurance doesn’t provide free or discounted access to BC – I probably also can’t get it at my local health department.
  2. You don’t pay more for healthcare as a man in order to pay for my BC and other female services. That’s a lie. No one is even asking you to pay more. You know who did pay more? Women. You know who are being threatened to once again have to pay more? Women.

Ok – so here’s the deal, no one is asking you to be inconvenienced by the things my body needs in order to function properly. No one is actually inconveniencing you. I’m worried though. I’m literally and rightfully worried about the future or my healthcare. I’m worried for my daughter. So I can’t just sit here and see your comment without saying something. I can’t know that there are people out there who think and feel the same way you do without doing something myself. So, I’m doing what I can. I’m speaking my mind, because thankfully I have a platform from which i can  stand on and write. I’ve donated money. I’ve signed petitions. I will do what I can and when I can to fight for myself. To fight for other women. I shouldn’t have to. It’s utterly insane that I do. That we do. I’ll admit that. This should all be a non issue. But it isn’t. So I’m not going to be silent.

Planned Parenthood

Hey guys! So so happy to see you came by again. 🙂 Today, I wanted to spend a little time talking about Planned Parenthood.

Healthcare and access to affordable healthcare, in general, is a really hot topic lately. The fact is – it’s been an issue for years. Planned Parenthood is an organization that is striving to provide millions of people with access to high quality healthcare for men, women, and children along with access to sex education, all of which is so so so important. Planned Parenthood has been around for 100 years, and despite your particular political affiliation or personal beliefs about reproductive health care, we think you should take a moment to educate yourself on exactly what Planned Parenthood does and why it is so important that Planned Parenthood be able to continue to operate.

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Planned Parenthood also offers many different kinds of sexual health care services for men at their locations.

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It’s not a new thing that people want to deny others access to healthcare through PP on the premise that PP is running around handing out abortions like candy. And, that they are using federal money (aka YOUR tax dollars in the form of Medicaid) to fund these abortions. The thing is though – I’m not here to talk about or discuss the necessity of a woman’s access to a safe abortion – that is just ONE of the things that some Planned Parenthood health care providers do. I’m here to talk about the threat to defund PP and  ALL the things that PP Healthcare providers do for men, women, and children who would otherwise not have access to affordable healthcare. Today…yesterday…this very minute..there are politicians at the federal and state level crafting and attempting to pass bills that will take away federal funding from Planned Parenthood health care providers all over the United States. I read a lot before I wrote this post. You can find news articles that spin what’s going on, in regards to the threat to PP, whatever way what you want. You can read articles that will dispute everything that PP claims to be true… For me. The facts remain – our federal and local governments are making efforts to defund PP. That’s the truth. I support Planned Parenthood – for all that they do.

Now, you may be wondering… how can I help? How can I let my voice be heard and known. Well the Planned Parenthood website has outlined three really important ways you can take action.
Another way you can help? AND support a small business run by an amazing woman?  A friend of mine just put out a new keychain in her Etsy shop [Mississippi Mayhem]. It’s in honor of moms like us – doing this thing our own way…standing up for what is important to us and to our kids even when that stance isn’t popular – and 15% of the profits from her sales this week (on ALL of the items in her shop)  will be donated to Planned Parenthood.

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Because you guys. Planned Parenthood is important. If not for me and you…for our daughters…for our sons…for all the people in your life who may need access to healthcare through PP..at some point.

And to bring my point a little closer to home. Here are some PP funded health care centers in Texas and Mississippi. You don’t live in those states? Just go here and search your own state. See for yourself the impact PP is having on the people that live around you. Still hung up on the whole abortion thing? Yes, their facilities often provide access to abortion – but women can receive abortions…and do receive abortions..at plenty of other facilities. Shutting down PP doesn’t shut down abortions from happening. Shutting down PP shuts down millions of people’s access to affordable reproductive healthcare and sex education.

Again, thank you guys so much for coming by today, and I hope you all are having a fabulous week. 🙂